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Overview
By test driving the will, and seeing its potential repercussions, particularly from the eyes of each affected family member, A might discover that his desire to provide for the spouse, and to empower A’s grandchildren, could be perceived in a much different, and more negative and damaging light than A intended.
Turning to the second question, has A appointed the right people? For A’s will, A appoints the eldest child, C as executor. C is an accountant and is orderly and objective. A appoints their second spouse under the power of attorney and the personal directive, since A and their spouse are together most times, and C is busy. A has a stroke and the power of attorney and personal directive are triggered. What impact will this have on the spouse’s relationship with A’s children? On the dissipation of A’s estate? On the involvement of the second spouse’s child?
If A has a family trust and is the trustee, who is the alternate trustee? How well will that new trustee work with the second spouse?
When A dies, how will the spouse and the other two children interpret the appointment of C as executor? Will it be seen as a final confirmation of A’s preference for C? Will C view it as an unwanted burden since C is aware that the second spouse is poor at handling money and now C must ask for an accounting? Will C want to be the trustee for the trusts for all the grandchildren? Will C’s siblings like that C is handling their children’s inheritances and making judgment on what funds should be used when and for what? Can or should C charge their professional rates for acting as executor?
Turning to the third question, are there any inconsistencies between the various documents? A owns the principal residence jointly with spouse 2, and has named the grandchildren as beneficiaries of their RRIF and TFSA. When A dies, the presumption will be that the principal residence, and likely most property in the home, goes outright to the spouse. It will not be calculated as part of their 20% interest in the estate. The full value of the RRIF will go to the grandchildren, and the tax burden will be borne by the estate, before the percentages are calculated. It is likely this is not consistent with A’s intentions, and it is also likely that it will cause tension amongst the family.
A might wish to give certain items, such as a car, or land, to a child, and therefore include the gift in the will. However, A may in fact own the car or the land through A’s corporation. So there will be no car or land in A’s estate to give.
The final question, do the results work for you and your loved ones, is about changing perspectives. Looking at the planning through the eyes of the spouse and the children, and walking through some specific examples of life events may enlighten us as to the unintended consequences of our planning. As our grandmothers were fond of saying, the road to hell is paved with good intentions. Viewing our family situation clearly, and honestly, and making decisions based on that, not on what we wish for it to be, is likely a better way to set the family up for success.
Lastly, this final question invites discussion with the family. Some level of transparency may be very helpful in test driving what we think is a splendid (but potentially misguided or unrealistic) plan. It will shed light on potential stressors, and be instructive as to what adjustment we may wish to make, or what further honest conversations we may want to have.
Estate planning is not a one time task. It is an ongoing process that deserves thoughtful review, practical testing, and honest conversation.
Before the unexpected forces decisions for you and your family, take the time to test drive your plan and ensure your documents truly reflect your wishes and work together the way you intend.
Contact our Wills, Estates + Trusts Group to schedule a consultation. Amie Heil and Ronda Johnson are here to help you review, stress test, and strengthen your estate plan with clarity and confidence.